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A long needed break Getting the life back

#1 User is offline   Cerns_slave_kaz Icon

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Posted 23 March 2008 - 08:44 PM

Well, firstly, long time no see A/all. I appologise for not logging onto the site for so long, it's been a hectic year lol.

Anyway, due to the stresses of normal everyday, family life (if such a thing can be normal lol) Master and I have not had a breather to be ourselves! On March 11th it was O/our anniversary and unlike me i decided We needed a break from 'normality' to be ourselves for once lol. This began as just a weekend away, but upon some research on the internet, i came ascroos a post about a small hotel, which to the 'normal world' is a small spa, but which also has a dungeon! Not only that but it has themed rooms, three of which are dedicated to BDSM. What made this even more suprizing was it wasn't in London, or oversea's but just an hour up the road in the north east of England! So I booked two nights as an anniversary gift to Master. Ohh and what a wonderful weekend we had!

Our room had a sex swing, two crosses with chains, a spanking horse (i think it's called) and a whipping bench! We had use of the spa also but the room was what brought 'Us' back! Master and i found ourselves again in that small room!

Also when we arrived a play party was going on downstairs in the dungoen! this was a suprise as in the north of England groups etc are common but never until now have We found one which actually plays!

Needless to say We are going back regularly and are joining the club :)

Forgive my rambling, but as Y/you can see, this lil slave is happy again and enjoying being able to be who and what she is.... not just a wife and mother! LOL

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Posted 24 March 2008 - 03:03 PM

View PostCerns_slave_kaz, on Mar 23 2008, 09:44 PM, said:

Well, firstly, long time no see A/all. I appologise for not logging onto the site for so long, it's been a hectic year lol.


Needless to say We are going back regularly and are joining the club :)

Forgive my rambling, but as Y/you can see, this lil slave is happy again and enjoying being able to be who and what she is.... not just a wife and mother! LOL

hugs

lil kaz



Well if any of us have to be missing for a while, to do it with the kind of fun you've had is the only way to go. lol

Glad you're back, and I will have to remember to talk with you next year when I go back to England.

Ginger

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Posted 24 March 2008 - 09:12 PM

Living our lives sure can get in the way of doing the things we would rather be doing. Artemis and I have had to reinvent the D/s in our lives several times, already. Getting it to fit in can be a challenge.

Like you and your Master, we have found that getting away for a retreat of some kind helps us remember what it was that helped bring us together and brings us so much pleasure. There are never enough of these getaways, but we really do look forward to them when we can have one.

It's nice to hear from you...and I am glad it sounds so upbeat, too. Our best wishes to your Master and your little one.

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Posted 25 March 2008 - 10:50 AM

hey kaz,
nice to see you again. I can relate. W/we had out anniversary recently as well, a big one, ten years. He surprised me with a trip to San Francisco. Although the trip wasn't strictly D/s related it helped us recharge that aspect of our lives. We went to Good Vibrations and he bought me both the Njoy Stainless Plug and the Stainless wand(love 'em), as well us Tourminos Woman's Guide to Anal Sex, which i had wanted to read. We also went to The Power Exchange. We read many unflattering reviews of the place and after a while we realised the negativity about the place was mostly from people who were just negative about sexual expression. We didn't actually publically play hardcore there, but we saw a lot of free sexual expression that fueled a lot of warm feelings. If you haven't heard of it, The Power Exchange is three floors (somewhere i read 30,000 sq feet) of every type of perverted space you could imagine. The bottom floor is a large dungeon space, every kind of equipment you could imagine, there are themed rooms, everything from jungle, prison, pirate, medievil, etc. There are video rooms with pornos on multi screens, glory holes, rooms with 8 beds in the center, smaller dungeon rooms, stripper poles... etc. It is a pretty raunchy, place. Right up our alley. I saw a public gang bang while there, gave me a lot to think about on the long plane trip home.

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Posted 31 March 2008 - 06:57 PM

ready

it has been a long time since I said hello

I do have just one question for you

Are you going to open one up in your neck of the woods? lol It might get us to make the drive

I hope all is well with you and yours



Dale

You are so right about the way D/s can wane from time to time. A D/s relationship takes as much work or more as any other type of relationship and life does seem to get in the way much too often



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Posted 01 April 2008 - 09:25 AM

The puppy and I have also been struggling with real life interfering in our relationship over the last year. I recently was injured and now I'm out of work for a while, so we have had to drastically alter our lifestyle in order to live on his salary. It involves a lot of not buying things and not going places. The transition is hard, but as we're learning to let go of a material "keep up with the joneses" existence we're finding that we have more free time than we know what to do with. Its been an unexpected blessing, and I don't think we're ever going to voluntarily re-enter the rat race.

One of the things that we have just started doing in the last few days is getting back in touch with our needs, wants, and desires in regards to BDSM sex and play in our lives. Right now we are just journaling on these topics so that we can each individually find ourselves again. When this phase is done we plan to re-negotiate.

I think that in the end this is going to be good for us. We have both grown a lot since we met, and this gives us a chance to wipe the slate clean, re-examine, and recreate this part of our relationship.
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